Meet Tori

“How you climb a mountain is more important than reaching the top.”
– Yvon Chouinard, Patagonia Founder

Tori Dabasinskas

Tori Dabasinskas
Wit Executive Director

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist – MA, LMFT, LPCC

Relationships matter. Communication is central. Without a doubt, the most common focus my clients have when they enter my office is stress related to communication and conflict, either at home or at work. For 25 years I have listened to story after story of how difficult, frustrating, irritating and time-consuming it is to find help – excellent help. That’s why I formed WIT Professionals.

WIT’s unique model takes the mystery and time out of resourcing leaders, teams and individuals with wellness solutions, provides continuity over time so communication strategies ‘stick’, saves people an extraordinary amount of time, money and bottom line….helps people when situations unexpectedly arise!

Tori shaking hands

About Tori

Tori is clinically trained as a licensed marriage family therapist and is licensed in Washington and California, She is a communication strategist deeply devoted to supporting people seeking health in relationships.  She brings a wealth of clinical experience from over 25 years of outpatient/inpatient psychological services.

Trained as a Cognitive Behavior Therapist, Tori specializes in conflict resolution, anxiety management, marriage, parenting and coordinated professional care.  Dedicated to teamwork and integrated care, while practicing in California, she founded and developed WIT Professionals in the San Francisco Bay Area and Seattle, a communication based concierge style integrated wellness program for small companies focused on relationships. Nationally and Internationally, Tori has practiced her expertise counseling, consulting, running groups, leading workshops and teaching seminars in a variety of settings including businesses, hospitals, treatment centers, churches, schools’ parents’ groups and various non-profit organizations.  She is certified in Attachment Focused Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (AF-EMDR), and is certified as a Specialist in Problematic Sexual Behaviors (S-PBS)

Tori adores time with her family, long runs with her Labrador Retriever, exercising her horse, fly fishing and most any sport in the outdoors.  She has a love for dark chocolate and is often found enjoying a delicious cup of hot coffee.


  • Communication

  • Attachment

  • Family Systems

  • Conflict Resolution

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

  • Anxiety and Depression

  • Marriage

  • Parenting

  • Trauma

  • Attachment Focus – EMDR certified thru

  • Adults: relationships, transitions, stress

  • Young Adults/Teens: stress, communication, life transitions, parents

  • Specialist – Problematic Sexual Behavior


  • Counseling since 1994
  • BA in Communications—University of Southern California
  • MA in Counseling—Saint Mary’s College
  • LMFT License—Marriage Family Therapist—State of California and Washington
  • LPCC License – Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor – State of California
  • PPS Credential—Pupil Personnel Services—School Counseling State of California
  • AAMFT – American Association of Marriage, Family Therapists
  • WAMT – Washington Association of Marriage, Family Therapists
  • NAPW – National Association of Professional Women
  • NWSB – North West Speakers Bureau
  • SASH – Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health

OFFICE: 12826 SE 40th Lane, St 203
Bellevue, WA 98006

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Service Details

  • Therapy sessions: $185 ($180 for cash/check)
  • Phone sessions: $115 ($110 for cash/check)
  • Office Staff Conflict Resolution
  • Stress Management
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Taking Responsibility in Relationships
  • Developing Habit Patterns of Obedience in our Kids

I will be an ‘out-of-network’ provider for most plans. It is always helpful to call your carrier and clarify their reimbursement for an ‘out-of-network’ provider on your plan. I will give you a super-bill for you to submit to your insurance for reimbursement.

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